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IcedAngel
  1. This is not fair.
    30th Oct 2008 09:34
    16 years & 15 days ago
  2. Note to staff.
    18th Oct 2008 01:13
    16 years & 28 days ago
  3. {Angel}: As a note...
    5th Sep 2008 17:32
    16 years, 2 months & 9 days ago
  4. Please Read.
    30th Mar 2008 05:25
    16 years, 7 months & 18 days ago
This is not fair.
16 years & 15 days ago
30th Oct 2008 09:34

I have just read a topic where a new member has been politely reinforcing rules.
Unfortunately, this person was then harrassed by at least 2 older members. Their reasons for doing so were;

1. She had gotten one rule wrong.
2. Apparently the topic was 'pointless'.

I find it very saddening that new members who are trying their best to find their way round a new site, and meet friendly members, meet two well-known older members who do their best to make her feel un-welcome.

If the simple mistake was made, then the older members should be there to /kindly/ point out the mistake. Not start a forum-fight, where the forum-starter even asked them to leave. They did not.

Unfortunately, when a player is well-known, people take their side as they don't want to be seen disagreeing with an older member. This means that the new members are put down by many people rallying against them.
I call this Bullying.
And it shouldn't happen.

New members are not sure how to act in forums, so it is acceptable to let them make mistakes and make so-called 'Pointless' topics.

However, this topic about the rules of Mara was not pointless and was well within her rights to post it.

Thanks, just expressing my opinion.

soooo right about it
115 years, 2 months & 21 days ago 25th Aug 2009 15:48
 
yesh.
115 years, 4 months & 18 days ago 29th Jun 2009 21:00
 
Am glad people agree ^^
There are always people you just want to throttle for being big-headed luls.
115 years, 8 months & 5 days ago 12th Mar 2009 10:27
 
same here.
115 years, 9 months & 2 days ago 12th Feb 2009 12:25
 
I agree
115 years, 9 months & 3 days ago 11th Feb 2009 11:25
 
Mm, thanks m'dears for agreeing with me!

Though, I would find it hilariously funny if an older member came on and told me off
115 years, 9 months & 6 days ago 8th Feb 2009 14:16
 
good points!
115 years, 10 months & 7 days ago 7th Jan 2009 13:07
 
I know, it sucks.
=/
115 years, 10 months & 8 days ago 6th Jan 2009 14:28
 
Totally agree.
People do take ides, they feel as if they betrayed the older member, like they could end up being bullied as well.

I've definately had that.
I was trying to get a chibs for my borthers memory, and someone just said.

`Liar.`
Then people stopped upporting me and turned against me.
`Liar.

-------------

yh i no!`

I hate it.
115 years, 10 months & 13 days ago 1st Jan 2009 07:40
 
  1. This is not fair.
    30th Oct 2008 09:34
    16 years & 15 days ago
  2. Note to staff.
    18th Oct 2008 01:13
    16 years & 28 days ago
  3. {Angel}: As a note...
    5th Sep 2008 17:32
    16 years, 2 months & 9 days ago
  4. Please Read.
    30th Mar 2008 05:25
    16 years, 7 months & 18 days ago