"haha. =]] i said g a y. xD"
G a y isn't something to use as an insult, like its bad or anything. G a y people don't choose their sexuality, and its just as natural as being straight.
My big brother happens to be g a y, and he went into hiding for...a year, almost, because of all the hate directed towards him. Except for the occasional call/email saying he was alright, just before he would change his address and number, that's all we heard from him. Do you know how that felt?